TERIMA KASIH ATAS SOKONGAN KORANG

mimpi yang sempurna...

kalau tuhan nak bagi kita sesuatu yang berharga, DIA takkan bagi dengan cara yang begitu mudah....


Apa yang aku cuba kongsikan ni actually satu cerita yang telah diforwardkan oleh sorang kawan baik suatu masa dulu. Dan aku tak penah jemu mengulang baca cerita ni yang sememangnya sentiasa buat aku dapat memandang jauh ke dalam isi cerita itu.


Cerita tentang perkongsian, tolak ansur, kasih dan sayang, tentang kualiti saling melengkapi satu sama lain, tentang memberi dan menerima dan banyak lagi.

Banyak sangat sebenarnya yang kita boleh dapat based on view memasing terhadap cerita ni.




When I was a little girl, my mom liked to make breakfast food for dinner every now and then. And I remember one night in particular when she had made breakfast after a long, hard day at work.

On that evening so long ago, my mom placed a plate of eggs, sausage, and extremely burned toast in front of my dad. I remember waiting to see if anyone noticed! Yet all my dad did was reach for his toast, smile at my mom, and ask me how my day was at school.

I don't remember what I told him that night, but I do remember watching him smear butter and jelly on that toast and eat every bite! When I got up from the table that evening, I remember hearing my mom apologize to my dad for burning the toast. And I'll never forget what he said:


"Baby, I love burned toast."

Later that night, I went to kiss Daddy good night and I asked him if he really liked his toast burned. He wrapped me in his arms and said,


"Debbie, your momma put in a hard day at work today and she's real tired. And besides a little burnt toast never hurt anyone!"

In bed that night, I thought about that scene at dinner...and the kindness my daddy showed my mom. To this day, it's a cherished memory from my childhood that I'll never forget. And it's one that came to mind just recently when Jack and I sat down to eat dinner.

I had arrived home late...as usual...and decided we would have breakfast food for dinner. Some things never change, I suppose!

To my amazement, I found the ingredients I needed, and quickly began to cook eggs, turkey sausage, and buttered toast. Thinking I had things under control, I glanced through the mail for the day. It was only a few minutes later that I remembered that I had forgotten to take the toast out of the oven!

Now, had it been any other day and had we had more than two pieces of bread in the entire house, I would have started all over. But it had been one of those days and I had just used up the last two pieces of bread. So burnt toast it was!

As I set the plate down in front of Jack, I waited for a comment about the toast. But all I got was a "Thank you!" I watched as he ate bite by bite, all the time waiting for some comment about the toast. But instead, all Jack said was,


"Babe, this is great. Thanks for cooking tonight. I know you had a hard day."

As I took a bite of my charred toast that night, I thought about my mom and dad...how burnt toast hadn't been a deal-breaker for them. And I quietly thanked God for giving me a marriage where burnt toast wasn’t a deal-breaker either!

You know, life is full of imperfect things...and imperfect people. I'm not the best housekeeper or cook. And you might be surprised to find out that Jack isn't the perfect husband! He likes to play his music too loud, he will always find a way to avoid yard work, and he watches far too many sports. Believe it or not, watching "
Golf Academy" is not my idea of a great night at home!

But somehow in the past 37 years Jack and I have learned to accept the imperfections in each other. Over time, we have stopped trying to make each other in our own mold and have learned to celebrate our differences. You might say that we've learned to love each other for who we really are!

For example, I like to take my time, I'm a perfectionist, and I'm even-tempered. I tend to work too much and sleep too little. Jack, on the other hand, is disciplined, studious, an early riser, and is a marketer's dream consumer. I count pennies and Jack could care less! Where he is strong, I am weak, and vice versa.


And while you might say that Jack and I are opposites, we're also very much alike. I can look at him and tell you what he's thinking. I can predict his actions before he finalizes his plans. On the other hand, he knows whether I'm troubled or not the moment I enter a room. We share the same goals. We love the same things. And we are still best friends. We've traveled through many valleys and enjoyed many mountaintops. And yet, at the same time, Jack and I must work every minute of every day to make this thing called "marriage" work! What I've learned over the years is that learning to accept each other's faults - and choosing to celebrate each other's differences - is the one of the most important keys to creating a healthy, growing, and lasting marriage relationship.


And that's my prayer for you today. That you will learn to take the good, the bad, and the ugly parts of your married life and lay them at the feet of GOD. Because in the end, He's the only One who will be able to give you a marriage where burnt toast isn't a deal-breaker!

May God bless your marriage.

...and my becoming marriage...insya allah..



Indah kan hidup ni kalau kita boleh saling berkongsi, saling menerima kekurangan dan saling menghormati kelebihan kapel kita. Bukan senang nak senang. Tapi cerita tu memberikan sesuatu yang positif pada aku dan mungkin korang juga.


We are responsible for what we choose to think and believe!


Hidup ini bukan semudah yang kita sangkakan, dan ianya juga tidaklah sesukar yang kita fikirkan.


Namun begitu, kita tetap punyai banyak pilihan, so pilihlah yang terbaik untuk kita. Take care of yourself in such way that it will allow you to reach your goal, your happiness.


Di mana kedudukan kita sekarang dan di mana pula kedudukan kita pada masa depan adalah bergantung kepada diri kita sendiri. Bergantung kepada apa yang kita fikirkan dan tindakan daripada perkara yang kita fikirkan untuk kita lakukan.


Aku selalu merasakan bahawa dalam meredahi hidup ini kita tak boleh terlalu sangat berfikir tentang berbagai bagai perkara dalam satu masa. Kenangan manis dalam sesuatu perhubungan tu, kalau dikenang kenang boleh membantu mengukuhkan sesuatu perhubungan. So better lupakan kisah kisah yang menyedihkan atau menyakitkan hati kita. Itu satu pilihan yang terbaik kot, ye tak?


Elakkan daripada banyak memikirkan perkara yang bukan-bukan, sebab kadangkala ianya boleh mendorong kita menjadi seorang yang berprasangka. Bukan nak kata tak boleh, cuma jangan melampau sangat. Tu je!


Love isn’t finding someone

You can live with;

It is finding someone

You cannot live without.


believe!

success is not a chance, success is a choice...




B E L I E V E


In yourself and all that you are. Know that there is


SOMETHING


Inside you that is


G R E A T E R


Than any obstacle



Hmmmm…


Kalau nak buat apa pon, even nak bercinta, memberi cinta dan kasih sayang, menerima kasih sayang dan cinta atau, nak buat apa apa saja dalam hidup ni, yang penting ialah KEYAKINAN dan PERCAYA PADA DIRI SENDIRI.


Tetapi biar lah kepercayaan kepada diri tu berdasarkan kepada kemampuan diri kita juga. Jangan dah tahu tak mampu nak buat juga, cari penyakit la tu.

Sapa orang yang paling penting dalam hidup kita dalam nak mencapai dan merealisasi sesuatu impian kita?


Korang rasa sapa orang tu?


Sebenarnya orang tu ialah diri kita sendiri. Diri korang semua. Bukan orang lain.

Orang lain cuma boleh bagi buah pikiran dan galakan serta sokongan, tapi nak memulakan langkah tu of coz diri kita sendiri.


So, tepuk dada tanya selera! Selamat melangkah, selamat 'memberi dan menerima cinta' dan apa apa aja.



take my heart


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Galeri Blues

selamat hari wilayah untuk semua...

on 1 Feb 2009


Lambang Kerajaan Malaysia
- Bersekutu Bertambah Mutu -


Bendera Wilayah Persekutuan



SELAMAT HARI WILAYAH


Selamat menyambut hari wilayah kepada semua warga wilayah persekutuan, dan of coz hari ni isnin 2 Feb anda bercuti bagi menggantikan tarikh hari wilayah yang jatuh pada hari Ahad 1 Feb 2009 iaitu semalam.


Aku pasti korang dah bawa anak isteri korang gi jalan jalan kan? Ni la antara masa yang korang leh spend kan untuk famili. Tapi KL ujan lebat la petang tadi. Anyway, hopefully korang happy la hari nih.